O.K. I’m just going to start with the vital statistics actually.
Q. What is your full name?
A. Frances Ruby Stronach. Adams now.
Q. O.K.
O.K. Could you just spell the Stronach, please.
S-t-r-o-n-a-c-h.
Q. O.K. And who were your parents?
A. Harry Foyle Stronach and he married Mary Anthony…..Mary Celeste
Anthony, of Bridgetown. They were both from Bridgetown or Clarence West
area.
Q. O.K. And do…can you spell his middle name please.
A. F-o-y-l-e.
Q. Thank you.
And your mother’s maiden name?
Anthony.
Q. And who were your grandparents?
A. Well, one was William Nelson Stronach and his wife Alena ah…..I
don’t even know her last name.
Q. That’s O.K.
A. She was grampa Stronach’s wife anyway. And then my other grandparents,
on my mother’s side, were a…..Willaby Anthony and he married Lavinya
Bent.
Q. O.K. And when were your born?
A. August 12, 1927.
Q. And where were you born?
A. Bridgetown, Nova Scotia.
Q. O.K. And how large was your family?
A. I’m the only one.
Q. And what did your father do for a living?
A. My father, before he married, was a World War Veteran, from the
First World War. When he came back, he had shrapnel wounds and gas wounds.
And the only thing he could do was work outside. So he was a orchardist
and he became a foreman to an apple grower.
Q. O.K.
A. And he had to work outside all the time. Ah…and then, these shrapnel
wounds that he had, would break in the skin, every once in a while,
and they’d have to lance them, they come up like boils, and take a piece
of metal out.
Q. Oh gosh.
A. In….in different areas. And eventually, I think it was the gas wounds
that he had, that killed him. But that was many years later.
Q. O.K. What do you remember about your mother’s work day.
A. Oh…she never worked outside the home. She was always home to look
after me. Ah…one day, yeah she did, my father was short in the packing
house of a….packers, to pack apples. And she begged and pleaded, could
she go. He didn’t want her to, but he said alright. He let her go. He
said we’ll see how this works out. And she hired a house keeper for
me. And a….she came home at noon to see how things were going. And I
was bawlin’ my head off. And I said "She spand…..she spanked Babe
behind the door. She spanked Babe behind the door." And I apparently
showed the door that I was spanked behind. So she looked at my backside
and I was all black and blue. And my father said to the housekeeper
"Have you had your dinner?" He said…..she said "Yes."
He said "You have one more thing to do. You have to go upstairs
and pack your suitcase because I am taking you home."
Q. Very good.
A. So that ended that that little bit.
Q. Yeah.
A. And she never got to work again.
Q. And you didn’t want a babysitter again.
A. No, I never did.
Q. What was a typical school day like, for you?
A. Well……I had to walk across the railway bridge and usually I got
cinders in my eyes. And the doctor that usually tended me, when I got
the cinders in the eyes, was one that came from school. So, the bus
didn’t pick me up. There was no bus in that area. But he said "I’m
gonna solve that." Because he went to work the same time that I
went to school. And he said "I’ll take you to school, at least
across the bridge." Sometimes he delivered he delivered me to school
and sometimes he just took me across the bridge. "Now" he
said "I won’t have to tend your eyes today, probably." (laughter)
Q. Isn’t that amazing, though.
A. Yes it was.
Q. So what kinds of things did you have to memor…..memorize in school?
A. Memorize…..no, I don’t know. We had The Lord’s Prayer, to start
off the school day. And a…..A Salute to the American Flag and then a….not
especially in school. But I belonged to C.G.I.T. (Canadian Girls in
Training) Girls Scouts a….4-H, ah……When I belonged to the 4-H, my mother
was one of the teachers. Not necessary of my group all the time.
Q. Umhmm.
A. Ah…..when I belonged to Girl Scouts, I wasn’t so very old. I had
just come out of Brownies. And one time I cut my mother’s tablecloth,
the lace one, across the end. Then I knew I had done wrong. I put a
pile of magazines, one or two at a time, right across the split. Well,
this didn’t look attractive to my mother, so she went and picked it
up and found the tablecloth was cut.
Q. Ah ha.
A. By that time, I had gone to spend the weekend with my grandparents,
on her side. And she phoned and said that the money I saved for my Girl
Scout uniform, I was not to spend for that, that I was to buy her a
new tablecloth. So, I did that and my grandparents bought me the uniform.
And was my father ever annoyed when I got home, that they had done that,
because he figured that was no lesson to me.
Q. So what kinds of things would you have done in the 4-H club?
A. Well, there was cooking and I was interested in animals. Oh, I just
always loved animals. And a….we had exhibits. And I got badges on my
exhibits. My mother was a good cooker and I presume that probably she
helped me, with some of these things I cooked, or at least taught me
to cook and…..I got prizes for it and earned badges. And in Girl Scouts
I earned badges. And I guess I still got some of them today.
Q. Well, that’s good. How were you disciplined in school?
Well…..
Q. If some one in the classroom acted up, how would that person be
disciplined?
A. Well…..I don’t know. For one thing, I lived in an area where there
were no children to play with. I guess I was interested in what other
children wore, what other children did and things like that. So, my
grades, to begin with, weren’t very good. Ah…I was paying attention
to the other child and probably not my studies. But any way, a….if you
were gonna fail in school, you got three pink slips. And when I came
home with the first one, my father said "If you ever bring another
one home," he said "you are gonna get spanked. You are gonna
a….pay for this, in some way or another and don’t bring another one
home." So I did. I brought the second one home. But I hid it. Which
was even worse. So, when they found out, then the teacher, I guess because
the slip didn’t come back signed or something like this, called my mother
and wanted to know where that slip was. And she didn’t know anything
about it. Well…..I…I had to confess to the fact that I had hidden it.
But….he said "Don’t let that happen again." So I did. I…he…..I
really got beaten for that. And….my mother didn’t say anything, to me.
But she must have told my father, because the first time I walked past
the chair, and this was a rockin’ chair, he grabbed me by the seat of
the pants and through me up over his lap and wanged me. And the rockin’
chair was rockin’ and all I could do, was put my arm under my head,
to save my teeth, from getting’ banged against the chair. And he said
"Now, I don’t think you’ll ever do that again. And should you disbehave
in any way, again, I’ll break the yard stick over your back side, the
next time." So, I can’t remember just exactly what I did. I did
something wrong in later years, not too long from that time, and I guess
he knew that I was doing wrong, and he cracked the yard stick, my mother
said, out in the wood shed. But when he used it on me, he did, he broke
it over my back side, (laughter) the rest of the way.
Q. Amazing.
A. Which wasn’t too firm….firm because it was already had quite a big
crack in it you know.
Q. What were your daily chores?
A. Oh…I had to clean my room, I had to make my bed, I had to help do
dishes. On Saturday I had to dust and I belonged to a…..C.G.I.T. And
I had gone to that one night and I had a note on my door a….."Do
not disturb." And this note was put there Friday night and my father
found it on Saturday morning. And so he said to me a……."Get up
and help your mother do the dusting." I said I dusted yesterday.
He said "Today’s dust is no better than yesterday’s dust. Get up
and help your mother." So I had to get up and help my mother. And
I….I was really made to do things. And mom told me in later years, probably
my father was too strict, but just for my own benefit.
Q. O.K.
A. Really.
Q. After your chores were done, what would you do with your free time?
A. Well….I collected stamps. I still have a stamp collection that’s
going on even today. Before I knew what a stamp was all about, there
was a very elderly man that lived across the road from us. And he said
"I think you should be a stamp collector." Well, that didn’t
mean much to me. But he had a room full and he designed albums of stamps
and started them. I would go over on Saturday afternoon and he would
say put such and such here, and tell me how to put it. It was quite
a few years. Oh….three or four years probably, before he sent these
albums home with me. But he worked on them, between times. I know he
did because I didn’t do that much on Saturday when I was with him. But
I….I knew how to do it. I understood it. And he gave me these four different
loose leaf ones to work in. Well, I continued on and I’ve started my
own since that. That case over there is just absolutely full of stamp
albums and a…..things like that. And I had a girlfriend. She collected
stamps and we traded. And I belonged to stamp clubs. And outside of
that a….I don’t know. In the summer we used to go to my grandfather’s.
I lived in the States then. I used to come to my grandfather’s, here
in Nova Scotia. And he was on a farm. And my brother, my father’s brother,
my uncle, and his family of three children, came. And they came to the
farm, where my grandfather was. So, my cousin, that was about my own
age, and I, would go out in the barn, and we’d guard the horses. And
we’d ride the horses. And we’d have a great time playing with the cats
and the dogs and things that were around there. And….
Q. Amazing. You were really lucky.
A. Oh yes I was.
Q. O.K. What was your favorite holiday when you were growing up?
A. Oh…I would almost say Christmas.
Q. Can you tell me about it.
A. Christmas? Ah….Christmas Eve, I’d go to my grandparents. The same
ones I’m talking about now, on my mother’s side. Ah…..we’d stop some
place and have supper. Then we’d go to their house. And, after I had
gone to bed, mostly when I was young, they’d decorate the Christmas
Tree. And…I guess my mother and aunt went to church, way late at night,
then. But ah…in the morning, after my breakfast and only after my breakfast,
was I allowed to go see the Christmas Tree and whatever presents might
have been there for me. And then…..oh…..I think Thanksgiving was another,
of my holidays, that I thought a lot of. Because American Thanksgiving
is very close to Christmas. And they had a Santa Sun Parade. So they
used to take me to the Santa Sun Parade, sponsored by Jordan Marsh,
the big store. And so I could see this parade, my father put me up on
his shoulders, to see above the crowd. So I could see all the parade.
And a….I know this was always right near Thanksgiving time, that this
happened. And that was something I looked forward too.
Q. What favorite pets do you remember?
A. Well……I don’t know. I don’t know that I had any favorite because
I loved cats. Even after I came here, I had a cat that lived to be sixteen
years old and eight months. I’ve got a dog now. She’s going on twelve.
And, all of my life I’ve had a dog. And I know of neighbors that have
had a dog and they weren’t treated too well. And that dog would come
to me and not want to go back to them. After a while the person would
say "I can’t keep my dog because it doesn’t want to stay here.
It wants to live with you. Will you take it?" I said "Yeah,
sure, I’ll take it." And……
Q. What was it like at your house, when the catalogue would arrive?
A. Catalogue?
Q. The Sear’s Catalogue or the Eaton’s Catalogue?
A. Yeah. Well that would be the Sears and Roebuck.
Q. Right.
A. I’d….I’d look at it. And probably pick out something I liked. But,
I wasn’t told that there was a Santa Claus. I wasn’t told I was gonna
get these things. Ah….there wasn’t much emphasize……emphasis on Santa
Claus at all. Not really. Ah….I was given lots of things, just numerous
presents but…
Q. Right.
A. Nothing too much from Santa Claus.
Q. How much spending money did you have as a child?
A. Oh….now I don’t remember.
Q. O.K.
A. Ah…..if I wanted something, I would ask my mother. Maybe she’d
say yes and maybe she’d say no. But when she said no, I would ask my
father. "Well, what did your mother say?" She said "No."
So, I didn’t like those answers. Then, I’d go see her grandparents,
which were living up there, in the states, and ah….so….I learnt one
of my aunt, uncle, aunt or my grandfather or grandmother would give
me, what I had asked for. I would go right down the line ‘til I got
it. Well, grandpa might say "Ask your grandmother." And grandma
might say "No, can’t afford it right now." So then I’d ask
my aunt. But…..it would work different times, different ways. Maybe
the first person I asked, there, get what I wanted. Very likely I might.
Q. O.K. What was your religion?
A. Well…..I was a Baptist.
Q. O.K.And what were Sundays like in your household when you were growing
up?
Well…..I had a kitten and one time I picked up a ball of yarn because
she had messed it all up. Just to roll it up and straighten it out.
And I was a…..chastised for that because I wasn’t suppose to do things
like that on Sunday. And on Sunday, I would have to, maybe, sing hymns
or go to church. It was a very definite thing that I went to church.
And my parents went to church. However, the people that employed my
father, were very wealthy people. And ah….they would stop by, every
Sunday, and take me to church. Because, I guess, they got a kick out
of having me, so I’m told. And my parents would be in church, in one
place, and I’d be with them in another place sitting between them.
Q. O.K. What was your favorite hymn?
A. Oh, I don’t know. Let’s see. Ah…perhaps "Eternal Father Strong
to Save."
Q. O.K. Could you sing me just a little bit of it?
A. No….I don’t think.
Q. O.K. What influence did religion have, throughout your life?
A. Well…..I would say it played a very great part. Um….like I say,
in June I lost my husband. If I hadn’t been a Christian or didn’t have
the Lord to depend on, I don’t know where I’d be. But I figure, when
I read the Bible, it says that he’d going to look after me ah…not for
bad things but he’s got something good planned for my future. And this
is what keeps me going I guess.
Q. Good for you. That’s a wonderful out look. That’s very good. O.K.
How did you keep up with what was going on, in the outside world? How
would you get your information?
Oh…I don’t know. Listen to the radio. There wasn’t any T.V. in those
days. But….ah….I don’t know. Like I say, there was no children in the
area. And…I was among adults and I listened to their conversation and
quite often we were invited to a wealthy home. That was the home of
my father’s employer. And they had chauffeurs and maids and things you
just wouldn’t believe. They had a table and you’d put your foot on the
bell under the table, if you wanted the maid for something during the
mealtime. Well, there a conversation going on one time, oh, I was right
small, and a….they didn’t miss me from the table at all. But I had gone
up, walked across the carpet, out into the kitchen and got myself a
glass of water. And I guess, maybe the maid might have brought it back
but a……My mother said "Where did you go?" I said "I went
to the kitchen for a glass of water. "Well, why did you do that?
You were suppose to tell us that you wanted it." Yeah. In a very
frank way I said "Well, when I’m home, you told me if I wanted
a glass of water to go get it. (laughter)
Q. That’s right. O.K. What things did you grow and raise yourselves?
I mean like vegetables or cattle or things like that.
Well, we didn’t raise cattle but my father had a big vegetable garden.
And I remember of picking peas. Ah…..and I’d go down in the garden,
and sit on the ground there, right by the peas, and eat peas. And then
he’d go to pick his peas. Well, he couldn’t understand why the peas
weren’t as good as they were the day before. ‘Til a little while he
caught on and I guess maybe after a while I had left some of the pods
on the ground. And also, ah…..he was an apple grower and I can remember
times when there was many, many ah….ah, half bushels of apples that
he’d bring home. Ah, his employer said take anything you want. Bring
‘em home. So, he’d bring maybe, two or three kinds. And so I’d have
a choice of what I wanted. My mother would have a choice of what to
make pies from. And a……oh, I don’t know. We were given large, at Christmas
time, large boxes of oranges and grapefruit and things like that. Fresh
from the south, with kumquats in them.
Q. O.K. Did you barter for anything? Did you……did your father trade
anything he had for some things?
A. Don’t think so.
Q. O.K. And how much of what you needed did you make yourself? Like,
did your mom make your clothes or things like that?
A. No, she made our food. She was not a seamstress.
Q. Right.
A. But she would hire, once or twice a year, a woman to come and make
clothes, for me.
Q. Oh Yeah.
A. She started out when I was a baby, one time, and made a dress. And
I was struttin’ around and thought the thing was just beautiful. My
father took one look at it, told her she better keep to cookin’. (laughter)
Q. That’s funny. So how did electricity change things?
Electricity. I don’t….gosh….I don’t…..I can’t even remember when we
got it.
Q. O.K. That’s alright. And do you remember when you got running water?
As far as I know I always had it.
Q. O.K. And what was bath night like?
Well…..I guess it was just in the bathtub. It wasn’t heated water on
a stove, like some people might have had, years ago. Maybe I’m not old,
maybe I’m not but……
Q. That’s O.K. Who was the doctor when you were growing up?
Well……we had two doctors. Very good friends of the family. And they
both lived on our road. And they were brothers-in-law. One was Dr. Hopkins
and the other was Dr. McLean. And a…..Dr. Hopkins told about a woman
whose language wasn’t too good, that came and brought two little girls
and said that she wanted him to fas….fascinate her daughters. He said
ah…."I think I’m a little too old for that," he says. "What
I think you mean is you want them vaccinated." (laughter)
Q. Oh….that’s really funny. Yeah…..that is. That’s cute. O.K. So how
far away did the doctors live?
Oh….just within a very short distance. Even when my father was sick
and dying, one of the doctors, Dr. Hopkins, he came to the house and
he’d sit with my father, bring his slippers and just relax and sit there.
Do what he could for him.
Q. Who delivered the babies in your community?
A. Well….as a baby, then, I was born in Bridgetown. And a….there was
a doctor there. But also my mother was sick, after this, and a Mrs.
Mitchie looked after her. And a….Bea Roberts looked after me, when I
was small. For a short time.
Q. So they would be like a mid-wife?
A. Well Bea Roberts was really an R.N. (Registered Nurse) But she was
just on vacation at the time. And a…..Mrs. Mitchie, I would say, was
probably a mid-wife. I don’t know too much about her. Don’t even remember
her. But I know that she worked there.
Q. O.K.
A. And, many years later, when I came here, ah….no I didn’t come here.
I was still living in the States then. But I was in nurse’s training
and I went to training school. And…in those days, you spent the first
six weeks in a school to learn to cook, how to look after a patient,
how to talk to them, be kind to them and so on before you even went
into a hospital. And then, after six weeks, I went into the hospital.
And the supervisor there of nurses, was the nurse that looked after
me when I was a baby. Now, she knew I was gonna be in that class and
she came into the room and before the girls introduced themselves, she
looked and said "Right over there in that corner," she says
"that’s France Stronach, over there." And I said to her "How
do you know?" And she said "You’re father’s looks is all over
your face." (laughter)
Q. O.K. What were some home remedies that would have been common when
you were growing up?
A. Home rememdies.
Q. Like, I’ve heard some stories about mustard poultices…..
A. Yeah, I know what you’re talking about, I was…..I was just trying
to think. I don’t know…..that any of these were ever used.
Q. O.K.
A. I…..I can’t……
Q. O.K. So how did you take care of your teeth?
A. Well….I brushed them, two or three times a day. When I couldn’t
brush them they were brushed for me two or three times a day. And….a
big part of my teeth, I still have…..my own teeth.
O.K. So how often would you see a dentist?
Oh…..maybe twice a year.
Q. O.K.
A. Get them clean, checked. I can’t remember in the very early years,
how often I was there but this was in later years that…..
Q. Right.
A. I’m doing this myself, going twice a year getting them cleaned and
checked.
Q. O.K. When some one died, what was the wake like?
A. Oh.
Q. You know, we’ve heard stories about when people die, they put…...
A. Stand them in the corner, but…I don’t know.
Q. You can’t remember that. That’s O.K. Really.
Q. O.K. Now I’m going to your teen years, I guess. It’s about….it’s
all about when you were growing up. How often did you leave…your community?
A. Well, the only time I ever left my community, for good many….great
many years, teen years and later were when I would go to spend my time
with my grand parents.
Q. O.K.
A. But I was fairly young when I started this and I would say school
was gonna close, we’ll say June 9th . Can I come to see you
June10th? But September, school was gonna start on the 7th
, but I’d like to stay with you ‘til about the 6th of September.
And that’d be the whole summer I’d want to stay with them. Well, I knew
very well that this wasn’t gonna be in the city where they lived, my
mother’s grandparents. That they were gonna travel all over the place
and have a good time and go to beaches and hotels and so on. Well, I’d
be taken. And my grandfather would be up early and I’d be up early so,
he’d take me someplace and get my breakfast for me. And then we’d go
down by the water, or go for walks, or um…..just things to enjoy ourselves.
O.K. So when you traveled from the States, to here, to visit your grandparents,
how did you get here?
Well, you see, my grandparents I’m talking about, when I was living
in the States, I went to….I went to grandparents up there.
Q. Oh…O.K.
A. And I went by car. I was usually taken and brought back from there.
But….when I…visited the grandparents down here, it would be a matter
of vacation time. So, I’d be brought down by car and taken back by car.
And…I’d be here then with my parents.
Q. O.K. So where did you live in the States?
A. I lived in Massachusetts, I lived in Ayre and Harvard and Groton.
All of these about thirty- six miles out of Boston. Probably not more
than three or miles apart, these places. Ah….let’s see……Then ah….after
my father died, I went to New York and I stayed with my uncle for awhile.
And…I lived in the nurse’s home and I went to my uncle’s very often
and I did my laundry there. But the hospital I worked in there, required
that every time you go through the gate, you had to open your suitcase.
Well mostly what I took out of a ground, in my suitcase, was dirty clothes
to do my laundry. But…the fellow would say "What am I gonna do,
look at your dirty laundry today?" (laughter)
Q. O.K. What were the roads like, when you were a child…..teenager?
A. Well…..I guess they were good roads.
Q. They were dirt roads or paved roads?
A. Oh, I would say paved roads. I…I can’t remember any dirt roads.
Q. O.K. O.K. What did you expect to do when you grew up?
Well….what did I want to be?
Q. Well, I have two questions. I need, what did you expect that you
were gonna do and then I wanted to know what did you hope to do?
A. Oh…..I don’t know. I guess the thing is all one answer. Because
I wanted to be a nurse and that’s what I was.
Q. Right.
A. I hoped I would be….
Q. O.K.
A. and….it’s what I wanted to be all my life and that’s what I was.
And even after I was married, I did specialing. When I moved here ah…..from
the States, I worked in Kentville for a while….fourteen years. And then
I wanted to come to Digby, and when I came to Digby I wanted to come
to the Digby Hospital. They said "I’m sorry, there’s absolutely
no positions available." So by that time I had a step-father who
knew the chief-of-staff at the hospital, and he said and I wanted to
go to work there. So Dr. McCleave said "Give me just three days."
He said "You’ll be there. There’s no problem." After two days
he called me. He said "You can go to work in the morning."
And ah….I stayed there only a very short time because he wanted somebody
to go to the Islands, off Digby Neck here.
Q. Right.
A. And look after By Blackford, the ferry master.
Q. Umhmm.
A. So, he took me out of the hospital and sent me to the Islands. And
speaking of un-paved roads, they were working on the roads there, with
just one mud hole. And going down….we got stuck and ah…I….the tractor
was there to pull us out. And then ah….coming back, that was several
months later, the roads was still in very bad condition, in places.
And the undertaker, I came back with him, because he knew I was all
through and he said I’ll take you back. And a…..so, he said "You
know, I don’t remember if you know," he said "But the roads
were very bad and that you’re gonna get stuck. But," he said "a
little tractor will pull us out." Well, sure enough, a little tractor
was still there to pull us out comin’ back. But, at the time that By
Blackford died he sent the family out of the house, because the man
was never gonna be taken off the Island. Only buried there. "Now,"
he said to me "you have a choice. Do you want to leave with the
family, or do you want to stay here?" He said "If you want
to stay here and help me, that’s perfectly all right." I said "I
wanna stay right here." So I stayed there, while they embalmed
the old fellow and a…..oh I didn’t mind that at all. It didn’t bother
me. And….apparently when you put embalming fluid in or something, they
make a gurgle. And the undertaker says to me "He’s gonna talk to
you right soon." (laughter)
Q. O.K. What did you say the man’s name was that you went down to look
after?
A. Blighford….Blackford.
Q. And he was the ferry captain?
A. Cap…..he was captain of the ferry that went from Tiverton to……
Q. East Ferry?
A. Yeah. East Ferry to Tiverton.
Q. O.K. So where did he live? On the Island?
A. Yeah. He lived on the Island and I stayed in his house. But….
Q. And he died from old age?
A. Yes. I don’t think he had a disease. I think he just died from old
age.
Q. Right. And he was buried on the Island?
A. He was buried on the Island. He died and stayed right on the Island
and was buried on the Island.
Q. Amazing. O.K. As a teenager, what kinds of things did you do for
fun?
Teenager. Oh I don’t know. For one thing, I went to school with a girl,
that came over here in wartime. She was a victim of Polio. And in school,
when it came recess time, you had to go out and play. When it came lunchtime,
you had to go to the cafeteria. Well this child was an absolute cripple
and she couldn’t hardly move her arm. So, I was very friendly with her
and I was allowed to stay there and have my lunch with her. Ah….spent
quite a lot of time with her. Her name was Rosemary Auvereau. And she
was sent here from England, at the time of the war, so she would be
kept safe, to her aunt and uncle over here. And then she went to school,
that was in the States. She went to school there with me. She was a
very good friend of mine. And, for many years we corresponded with each
other. I know that Rosemary’s gone now because….she wasn’t very well,
the last time I was talking to her, by letter.
Q. Right. O.K. Did you ever go to the movies, when you were a teenager?
A. Well, once in a while, but not…not very often.
Q. So would you have….would you have had any movie idols? Famous movie
stars….
A. Yeah, I know what you’re talkin’ about. Ah….I don’t know. Gene Autry,
maybe, if any.
Q. O.K. What kind of music did you like?
A. Oh…Christian music.
Q. Umhmm.
A. Ah….something that probably made you light-hearted. I….certainly
wasn’t interested in rock music or anything like that. Maybe in those
days they didn’t even have it. Probably didn’t.
Q. O.K. What kind of sports did you enjoy?
A. Well….I was just never sports minded because when these children
were out playing sports and so on, I spent a lot of my time with Rosemary
and we’d play games and do things that were easy for her.
Q. Right. What do you remember about dating?
A. Oh dear. (laughter) Well……I was an old girl by the time I did that.
Let’s see. I didn’t date at all until I moved here to a….Nova Scotia,
again.
Q. O.K. And when was that? That you moved to Nova Scotia?
A. That was after I finished nurse’s training. ‘Bout 1948.
Q. O.K. So you dated after you moved to Digby?
A. Yeah.
Q. O.K. O.K.
A. I only just ever dated the one man.
Q. Oh…cool.
A. That’s the one I married.
Q. That was my next question to answer. O.K. How far did you go in
school?
How far?
Q. Umhmm.
A. Grade twelve.
Q. O.K.
A. Graduated.
Q. And why did you leave school?
Q. Graduated.
A. Yeah.
Q. How old were you when you left school?
A. Sixteen. Maybe closer to seventeen. About sixteen anyway.
Q. And once you left school, what did you do? You went right into nursing.
That’s right. I graduated in June and went in in September.
Q. And where did you take your training?
A. In Boston. Ah….for six weeks. And then I was moved from there to
the Emerson Hospital in Concord, Mass. Yeah.
Q. How long did it take you to become a nurse?
A. Ah….three years.
Q. O.K. O.K. So how did you meet your husband?
A. Well….when I came here to Digby, I decided that I’d go, perhaps
to the Wesleyan Church. I don’t know why I decided on the Wesleyan Church.
But I did. And ah…oh he was drivin’ quite a lot of women home, (laughter)
from various places. Like from church to where they lived, rather. And
ah….so…..then after a while, it was just me he was driving home. And.…he,
he dropped all these other old girls. And I guess maybe somebody told
him I might make him a good wife or somethin’. I understand they did
kinda match maker type of person. And ah…..so I married him. But the
story he told me after we were married, was that when he was in the
services, he was in the Second World War, and the war was almost all
over and that two hundred men down here wanted to be captain of the
Life Saving Station. They put a requisition in, application, to become
a captain of it. None of them got it. My husband, in the armed services,
who never put the application in, was transferred from the Department
of Defense to the Department of Transportation. Put in his captain of
the station and, something he didn’t expect. And then when he had to
go back to be re-released from the services, he had to take a week off
from the station here, to go back, so they could let him out of the
service, to go through that performance you go through or whatever it
might have been. And…so as a result of that, when the station closed
down here, they asked him if he wanted to be transferred. He said no.
He guessed not. They gave him a number of places he could go. And I
said "Why didn’t you take the opportunity?" Well he said to
me, "You know, if I had taken that opportunity and gone and something
happened to my father, and I had to leave that position, then my pension
wouldn’t be as great as what I’m doing now." So," he said
"I just decided to leave it be." Because his father was a
very old gentleman and he lived with us. And he figured that something
was gonna happen to his father. He was long in his nineties, then. And
a…well….he just said that he better not….that he just better leave this
job and let be. More or less dismissed from it because the station had
closed.
Q. So you never ran…he never ran the Life Saving Station, out there?
The Lighthouse.
A. No, not the Lighthouse. The Life Saving Station down here.
Q. Oh, I see. Right down here.
A. Yup.
Q. O.K.
A. He ran it, twenty-three years.
Q. So did you live there?
A. No. We lived right here.
Q. You lived right here and he just worked it.
A. Yeah….he just worked there.
Q. So what kinds of things would he have to do?
A. Well…he did all the office work. But he also had to go out and take
the boat over to Saint John, for refit, when they went. And sometimes
he had to go out on rescue missions. Not, perhaps, as much as other
men, because he had boatmen and things working there. And ah….they had
a cook and the cook sometimes had to go out on the boat too. But…there
was one cook worked there and he was trying to save money. And he’d
have fish and fish and fish for the meal. And he’d have time off. So
then whoever was the second cook, which I don’t remember his name, ah….would
buy chicken or something like that. So, the cook would come back. Well,
I see you had chicken last week. Why don’t we have it more often. (laughter)
Q. So, did he work that job, was that a nine to five job or was it
shift work?
A. Oh no….a shift work. Let’s see. He might be on…..five days, pretty
well day and night and then he’d have five days off and come home here
but sometimes during that time off they’d be enough men, that some of
those men would go to their own home, in that five days, maybe an hour
or two and then go back. But if there was any emergentcy they’d have
to be contacted at home.
Q. Did you ever visit him there, when he was working?
A. I was down some, yes. Yeah. It was an interesting place.
Q. Yeah. O.K. So how old were you when you got married?
Oh, I was almost forty.
Q. Wow.
A. And, I wasn’t quite forty. And he said ah…."I just saved you
from being an old maid."
Q. So once you were married, where did you live?
A. Right here.
Q. O.K.
A. This is the only house I ever lived in after I married him.
Q. O.K. So how much money did your first home cost, this house?
A. This one?
Q. Umm.
A. My husband bought it for fifteen hundred dollars.
Q. O.K.
A. And it was brand new and built here for a minister. But, before
the minister got to move into it, the little church up here in the village,
had some kind of a fight and put him out of it. And, so he sold it for
fifteen hundred dollars. It didn’t have the porch on the front of it
like it has now.
Q. Right. O.K. What year did you start your first job? Your nursing
job?
A. Oh….
Q. Just roughly.
A. Probably 1948. ’47, ’48.
Q. And how old were you then?
A. Seventeen.
Q. O.K. Describe to me a typical work day.
A. Oh…..let’s see. I don’t know. I’d go in the hospital and there would
be a list on the wall, ah…indicating what patients you were to look
after. You would find out what section you were going to, what patients
would be yours…to look after. Ah…at that time, our uniforms were white,
nothing except white. Very stiffly starched with a starched apron over
the top of it. Ah…they don’t wear such things today. No way. But ah….anyway,
are….are…I would work shift work. Oh…and I don’t know. I can remember
these stiffly starched uniforms because they were most uncomfortable.
Between the uniform and the apron you could hardly bend at the waist.
Q. So how dangerous was your work?
A. Well….in later years I can remember when I was here in Digby, that
I was required to lift a man that was dead or almost dead and do it
alone. And I sprained my chest, I guess, and this was in the winter
and there was terrible colds going around and I got it. And , I came
down and I was puttering around one morning at breakfast. And I lived
on the Shore Road here with my mother. And she said ah…"You’re
gonna be late for work." I said "I don’t think I’m going to
work this morning." She said "Do you feel sick or something?"
I said "I feel awful." So anyway, I didn’t go. And for several
days I didn’t go. And then they started to call from the hospital, ah…when
I was coming back to work. When I was comin’ back to work. My mother
said "She’s sick. She can’t go back to work." So she told
the doctor, Dr. McCleave. So Dr. McCleave went, she said, immediately
to the telephone, and called the superintendent of nurses and said when
Frances Stronach was able to come back to work, she would be back to
work and I’ll let you know when that time is. Well, that stopped the
telephone calls. And I was really sick at that time and the only other
time I can remember really being sick was just before I got married.
Ah…I was home with a terrible cold and I think this was again because
I had lifted somebody that was heavy. And ah…..well Harry used to come
and without fail he’d pray for me everyday and…I…I got better.
Q. Well that’s good. So how much was your salary when you started your
first job?
Oh gee. I don’t know. That’s something I can’t answer because I just
don’t know.
Q. O.K.
A. If I knew I’d give you an answer.
Q. O.K. What do you remember about the Depression?
A. Well…….Let’s see. Ah….going back to salary I can remember this of
having, I don’t what the pay was. But I can remember having a raise
in my pay. But because of income tax and various things being taken
out, ah….my gross amount and my check would be more. My take home pay
would be less, because more money would go into these other things.
Ah….and therefore I wasn’t getting as much. About the Depression, ah…..all
I can remember is that this man, and this was in the States, that was
my father’s employer, and had this wealthy home, and all the servants
and so on, ah….he had lost his money because of the Depression. And
he was very depressed because of that. And he didn’t commit suicide
but he did die because of having to let all these servants go and feeling
so bad and losing just about everything he had.
Q. Isn’t that something.
A. And he never lived very long.
Q. What do you remember about wartime?
A. Well….The only thing I remember about wartime is that my father’s
bad injuries and these lasted for so many years after he came back.
Q. Right.
A. Shrapnel wounds like being lanced and so on like I spoke about,
to have these pieces of metal taken out and the fact that he would sometimes
have to get up in the middle of the night and go outside to get a breath
of fresh air because his…his lungs were that bad. And he did die of
cancer. And the doctor said he figured it was because of the bad lungs
that he had that really killed him.
Q. Isn’t that horrible though, really.
A. Yeah. And….at the time that he came home the government wrote to
him. I….I don’t remember this but I remember my mother saying that the
government wrote to him and said "What do we owe you?" He
said "I didn’t sell my country anything. What I did I gave."
Q. That’s awesome.
A. Yeah.
O.K. How did you plan for hard times or retirement?
Well….I don’t know. I guess I was tight. I saved my money when I could.
Q. O.K.
A. Just because I had a certain amount of money from pay day to pay
day, I didn’t spend it. I put it aside and looked for the so called
rainy day.
Q. How did people help each other out, in days gone by, that’s different
from now?
A. Well….I don’t know. The example I gave about the doctor coming and
sitting with my father, when he was so sick. Doctors don’t do that.
Not…not even neighbors. They…they don’t do that. But he was just a…..very
close friend of my father’s. And…just came and sat with him and things
like that. But….I don’t know. You were speaking of then and today but,
today I find my church people and my neighbors ever so kind.
Q. Oh….that’s good.
A. Because ah….in the church they’ve made arrangements and they’ve
put a list on the wall. And the minister said "We want trans……ah…..Frances
transported to church on Sunday and on Wednesday nights. Now if you
want to do this please sign the list." So opposite a certain date
they’d write their name. I’ll do it on Wednesday and I’ll do it on Sunday.
And on Wednesday it meant that they would take my….me to get my groceries
on Wednesday night after church and then bring me home.
Q. That’s very nice.
A. Oh yes. And between the Mountie, Wendell Ackerson, here in town,
and the minister, they’re the ones that planned this. And the minister,
in the first place, said to me "If you wanna go to church on Sunday
and Wednesday, why don’t you call somebody?" I said "No."
I said "I’m not gonna do that." I said "I don’t want
to be beggin’ and bummin’ all the time." "Well," he said
"We’ll do something different then." So then, between them,
they thought up….this other way.
Q. That’s so good. You’re very lucky.
A. And I figure I am.
Q. Do you….what do you remember about the Poor Farm?
A. Oh…..well…..I don’t remember very much about that, except that my
mother is now a patient at Tideview. She never lived at the Poor Farm,
but one of the residents in there, did. And she kept saying "My
father and mother were….ran the Poor Farm." And she had kind of
Alzheimer’s and she was talkin’ this all the time. Well it was true.
Her parents did run it. But….she was saying just how , well…..poor,
the people were that lived there. And other people in there have said
how poorly they were treated there. This woman didn’t say that her parents
treated them bad but I understand that the treatment wasn’t too good
there.
Q. Right. O.K. How important were politics in your days? In your adult
life? In your early adult life?
A. Yeah. Well….I don’t know. Ah….I can’t say I did it myself. But many
people voted, well, we’ll say Liberal, because their parents were that
way, or their grandparents were that way.
Q. Right.
A. They didn’t especially vote for the man.
Q. Umhmm.
A. I think in my own voting time, that I voted because I thought a
certain person was better. Maybe one time Liberal, maybe next time ah….Conservative,
or something like that. But ah….not…..I voted for the man and not the
party you’d say.
Q. O.K. Describe to me, what your community looked like, when you were
growing up? Like the stores. How many stores would there have been?
That kind of thing. What kinds of stores were they?
Well……We had to travel quite a distance to stores out….right where
we lived. It was in the country.
Q. Umhmm.
A. Because of….like I said my father was an apple grower there. And
ah….well, you just had to go quite a long distance. But I can remember
my mother talkin’ about back when she was real young, of going to these
country stores and walking a long distance to get there and maybe having
five cents to spend. And she’d buy something for five cents that included
a number of pieces of something and maybe my aunt would get an ice cream
cone. Well….she’d have half the ice cream cone, my aunt would have the
other half and then my aunt would have half the candy my mother bought.
That they’d share their five cents or their ten cents that way. So that….each
had something.
Q. O.K. How was the law enforced in your community? Did you have policemen?
A. No, I don’t…….I don’t think so.
Q. O.K. Who was the largest employer in your community?
A. Well…..I guess it probably was J. P. Sullivan, the man that my father
worked for. The…the apple grower. He had just….large, very large fields,
orchards and things like this. Towards the later years my father had
orchards of his own and then umm….in these orchards my father, of course,
would pay for his own fertilizer and things like that. But the…at the
time he died my mother said that she wanted the fertilizer bill because
she knew my father had a fertilizer bill. And the employer said no…..no
longer. He said "I’ve paid for that." He said "It’s all
looked after. You don’t have to worry about it." For six months
after my father died, he was paid a salary just like he had earned it.
And also, when he was sick and still working, his employer said "If
you want a nap, you go have a sleep." And that would be in the
car, right up in the orchard there. Sometimes after he had his lunch,
he might sleep an hour or two, and then go back to work. But, he didn’t
live long after that anyway.
Q. He sounds like a good employer, though.
A. Oh he was. He was just great to us. And he was the one that said
"Take the apples that you wanted." And so on.
Q. O.K. Do you know how many people, roughly, that he would….he would
have employed?
A. Oh, I don’t know. I…..probably in the hundreds.
Q. Oh really.
A. Yeah. Because he had all these orchards and he had packing houses
and things like that. And, at certain times of the year, when the orchard
work was all done, my father was in charge of the packing house, to
pack apples. And these were packed, maybe in those days, a little different
that what you see today. Because there’d be a little tiny box, oh so
many inches long and so many inches wide, about wide enough to hold
an apple. And there’d be five or six apples, probably five apples in
a box. And they were all place in there sunny side up to look just lovely.
And then also they were packed in bushel boxes. But they weren’t just
tossed into the bushel box. They were all lined up there and they looked
so pretty.
Q. Right.
A. And especially the top row was all lined up so one apple came right
close to the other. Red long and rose. They were really pretty. Sunny
side up.
Q. When would people get together for a good time?
A. Oh…I don’t know. Let’s see. My….mother belonged to something called
‘A tongue and needle club.’ I guess it was…… you’d say the men did the
talking and the women did the sewing. Ah….this is what was said anyway.
But I imagine the women did their share of talking too.
Q. Right.
A. But…ah…these two doctors that were our friends, they came to ‘The
tongue and needle club.’ And one night, one man came, one of the doctors
came and he came fairly late. And he was just so tired he couldn’t keep
his eyes open. So mom said "Go upstairs and have a nap." Well
during this time, telephone rang and they wanted Dr. Hopkins to come
deliver a baby. Well…..my mother answered the telephone and she said
ah…"Wanted Dr. Hopkins." And she said "I’m sorry. He’s
out." And she said ah….Dr. McLean, I guess, more or less prompted
her to say this. To say he was out, the other doctor who was there.
And a….after she hung up the phone she said out, just like a light.
So Dr. McLean went and he delivered the baby but…(laughter)
Q. Isn’t that amazing.
A. Yeah.
Q. So do you remember going to the tongue and ……
A. Needle?
Needle.
I went some but…… it was mostly for older people and…..I…I wasn’t too
involved in it.
Q. I’m just curious to know, back then, if you can remember, did the
men stay in one room and the women in another room?
A. Not entirely but sometimes they would divide up and sometimes they’d
get together.
Q. Right.
A. But ah….
Q. Would they play any music at this?
A. Oh yes, they played music. Ah….probably more or less, Christian
Music or something that wasn’t, a rock type of thing.
Q. And was it at a different house each time or at the same house?
A. No, no, they went to different houses. And then they had, what they
call, the progressive dinner. And ah…the first house you would go to,
maybe you would get umm….a punch, hors d’oeuvres or something like that,
maybe just punch at the first house, then you talk there for a little
while, a half-hour or fifteen, twenty minutes, something like that,
then you’d go to the next house and get hors d’oeuvres. And the next
house you go to you’d probably be served a salad or something like that
depending on how big the item was, depending….would be….depending on
how long you stayed at the house. Then, the next time would be a full
course meal some place. And then you’d move on from there, in the late
part of the night. And you’d get a desert at somebody’s house. And then
you might get your coffee with that desert but you might not get your
coffee ‘til you went to the very last place just before you went home.
Q. That is awesome.
A. And that was a progressive dinner.
Q. Hmm. What do you remember about tourism?
A. Yeah travel.
Q. Do you remember tourists coming to this area, during the summertime
or anything?
A. Oh yes I know. I don’t remember. But they came here. But this was
a very great tourist place in the summer. Ah…this village right here,
because, this house next door, they had a place where they kept the
tourists and they also fed them there. And there was a little cottage,
across the road, from there, where they kept their help.
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